when it gets painful, don’t just sit there don’t create yourself more spaces to over think, don’t hurt yourself more by digging deeper in the pain.
Put on your best clothes , go out side, talk to strangers, try a whole new identity that you haven’t tried before, allow yourself to laugh more, to ramble, to be silly, or even absolutely insane…
Gradually, you’ll realize you actually forget your pain. And nothing fucking matters anymore. You’re young, you’re pretty, and there is gonna be a whole new horizon ahead. Why so upset? why so hurtful? why so serious?
and most importantly, is it worth it ?
And then you can come back and laugh at your old hurtful self, and move on with your daily life, which is both happy and sad just the way it has to be.
This doesn’t sound like me, this sounds more like I’m drunk. But whatever :)) I had great time, and that’s all about it :)